Most of us feel that we would be unbeatable in the market if we had the best quality, the best price, and powerful differentiation. In my experience, you could have all that, and still fail. You also need trust between you (and your company) and the client.
Trust is the challenge
Trust, while vital to any worthwhile and productive relationship, seems to be a challenge for many to build and maintain successfully. Further, sales and marketing efforts that lack this vital ingredient, often (always, in my experience) fall far short of their potential.
The cost you never see
People hate to tell you that they don’t trust you. Instead, they let their actions do the talking for them. You usually can’t see the cost. What I have observed is that, as trust grows, new, interesting, and rich opportunities suddenly emerge, right before your eyes. Those goodies were always there, just waiting for you to earn the right to see them. That right almost always comes through trust.
I meet often with CEO’s and presidents
The first test I set for myself is the test of trust ability. Nothing else matters if I can’t pass this test. I got in the door because others said I was trustworthy. Now they run their tests to confirm it. If I pass, I move forward. You know what happens if I don’t pass the trust test: Nothing.
Surveys point at trust
Dozens of survey’s, done over the last 30 years; consistently show that prospects and customers feel they can tolerate average products, average service, and average pricing. But they can’t tolerate working without a certain degree of trust.
Trust can buy you some potent benefits:
- Real loyalty, when times are tough: The behaviors that create and sustain trust are not affected by any economy.
- Referrals. Some trust will deliver some referrals. Deep trust can drive a torrent of referrals your way. (However, this won’t happen without some action on your part.)
- Better information. Some trust delivers some information. Deep trust results in a lot more information.
- Win-win deals. Sometimes you must walk away from a deal to maintain your long-term trust relationship.
- Better self esteem for you.
- Far higher margins. In most surveys, price is not actually in the top five reasons that people buy or keep buying. Getting what they want in a fair manner is usually the main thing they are after. With trust, you can be paid what you are really worth in a situation. That doesn’t mean overcharging. It does mean that, if you provide great value, you are much more likely to be paid for that great value.
- Fewer surprises.
- Sales forecasts that become revenue reports with a minimum of leakage. (One forecast was for $100K while the actual revenue received turned out to be $30K. Nothing erodes your credibility like consistently missing your revenue forecasts).
What isn’t necessary to have trust (This might surprise you.)
You might be surprised to know that being liked is not a necessary part of a trusting relationship. It is helpful, and it likely leads to greater and more-effortless productivity, but it is not actually, in my experience, a requirement.
Story
I once had a business partner who was a very religious person. He was also off-the-charts brilliant at what he did for a living. But, he was a “difficult” person in the opinions of most of our customers. I cringed every time he got near a customer. Despite all that, we still got great customers. And we kept those customers while we increased our revenues each year. While this person was a royal pain at times, he was as trustworthy as the day was long.
Three levels of trust
- Level one: Our values are aligned
- Level two: I am competent in the things you need me to be accountable for.
- Level three: I have the authority to achieve the things you need me to be accountable for.
An example:
I trust (level one) my lovely wife, in that our values are deeply aligned. We are going on vacation to Hawaii June 1st. I wouldn’t trust her to fly the 747 we will be flying on, because she is not competent to do that task (level two). Let’s just imagine, for a second, that she did know” how to fly a 747. I would not trust her (level three), because she would not be authorized by any airline (with a brain) to fly one.
To be powerful
You must test the levels of trust that your objectives require. We call this qualification.
The magic of keeping your word
The fundamental underlying all this, is the requirement that you keep your word. So easy to say and, oh so very hard to do, even if you know the mechanics of keeping your word. I’ll cover those mechanics next week, by the way.
How to build trust
The key is to ask, listen, and keep your word:
- What do they want from what you are selling?
- What do they value?
- What does success look like?
- How will they know success when they see it?
- What complaints have they had with others who provide what you offer? (You are not asking the name of the others. You just want to know what the issues have been in the past. I like to ask, “What did they say when you told them about your concern”?)
- What kind of service do you want and need?
- What is the single most important thing to you in dealing with what I offer? (If it is price you might also want to say: “Pretend price is the lowest you have ever seen. What would be the next most important thing to you”?)
I am sure that you can think of a dozen other questions whose answers you need to know to align with your clients in your market. Just make sure you write them out, ask them, and record the answers. There is no memory in the world as powerful as words printed in pencil on plain white paper.
The big issues that derail trust even if you know all of the above:
- Thinking about what you are going to say next, instead of really listening.
- Not asking clarifying questions. The client is aware of it when you don’t ask a question that you should be asking. This is where the amateurs are separated from the professionals. The client loses trust in you if you don’t ask the right questions, and you begin to pose a risk to them, their career, and to their company. Even when you think you know, ask the question.
- Not doing what you said you would do, every time. Essentially, you must keep your word. Again, we will go into the mechanics of keeping your word next week.
Bottom line
The bottom line is to take care of trust first, and then your product, service or company. You can have the best price, best service, and best quality, but without trust, you can, and will, be beaten by the competitor who has an average price, an average service, and average quality, but is wrapped in the security of trust.
Creation and maintenance of trust before the sale
If your clients know they can really trust you, they can tolerate almost anything else, as long as you and your offer truly meet their needs.
Choose to act now
Begin today to ask those questions, keep your word, and build trust. You will likely be amazed at what a difference it will make in your life.
Cheers,
Eric